We are all powerful creators and every day in each moment we create our reality. The Law of Attraction is a powerful universal law. Essentially, what we focus on we will attract more of. Even if what we focus on is what we don't want, more of what don't want will come to us. When it comes to fertility it is common to look at what isn't working, how are body isn't cooperating, how the test is negative and so on. When you focus on what you don't want you will attract more of what you don't want.
Many of my clients begin working with me and complain about how their cycle is irregular. Even after a few months of normal cycles they tend to want to complain or worry about it becoming irregular again. I help them shift their perspective and focus on how the cycle is beginning to regulate. Here is an example:
Me "How many days was your cycle this month?"
Client "It wasn't good. It was still long it was 39 days"
Me "Wow 39 days is better than last cycle which was 49 days. That is great! We are moving in the right direction."
Client "I guess so but it isn't normal. It is still too long!"
Me "It will take some time for your cycle to regulate. There is so much happening in your body - hormones coming into balance, reducing inflammation, restoring homeostasis. We can't see the big picture. Let's focus on the positive and the fact that your cycle is shorter and closer to where we would like it to be."
Client "I guess so but we still have a ways to go. I mean how many more months will it take? I am so frustrated by my body."
Me "Again let's shift the focus to what your body is doing for you today in this moment and let go of the attachment to what it wasn't doing for you in the past. The past is the past. Let's celebrate today and more forward from here."
In many cases, my client's are trying to convince me of what may go wrong in the future, while I help them focus on what is happening in this moment. The present moment is all we know for sure. All our current thoughts and emotions will determine what we will attract in the future. If you believe the world is out to get you, that will become your reality because that is what you are focusing on. When you worry, your energetic vibration will fall to a level that will match the vibration of worry in the universe and as a result you will attract more things to worry about.
Here is a video clip about the Law of Attraction from one of my favorite teachers Abraham-Hicks.
Click here to watch it.
Remember you create your reality. No one else does! The good news is that you can change your reality if you change your mind about your fertility and your life. You have the ability to create a life that is extraordinary! All of us are capable of being powerful creators! All of us including you! You are just as capable and deserving of having all your dreams come true! It begins with YOU! It begins with you changing your thoughts and aligning your vibration with what you desire. Focus on your desire to be a Mother or Father. Focus on your dream of a family! Stay in alignment and then open your heart to allow that to become your reality.
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