tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.comments2023-07-29T06:15:25.295-07:00Fertility Inspiration - Healing with SpiritSue Dumaishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08253991208009556493noreply@blogger.comBlogger92125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.post-61330072822333917362012-11-16T10:55:56.943-08:002012-11-16T10:55:56.943-08:00Fantastic post, just what I needed. Thank you :)Fantastic post, just what I needed. Thank you :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.post-66392218994870635902012-09-05T09:09:45.552-07:002012-09-05T09:09:45.552-07:00Kind of neat! I have just changed around 'gett...Kind of neat! I have just changed around 'getting ready for baby' to 'that baby better get ready for <i>us</i>.' We have done so much while waiting and "inviting" that we're as ready as we can be.HiLLjOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18339271743324886097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.post-25888381237327449152012-06-19T14:43:34.930-07:002012-06-19T14:43:34.930-07:00Thank you anonymous! Yes I will continue to write ...Thank you anonymous! Yes I will continue to write and share my journey with everyone. Now that I have become aware of the block I have been able to process it and release it with love. I appreciate your comment and encouragement and I am even more grateful that you have benefited from me sharing. You are right we all have our own unique path to becoming parents and all we can do is follow our heart. I am so excited that you found your path. Congratulations! Big hugs ~ SueSue Dumaishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08253991208009556493noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.post-23057921502067957822012-06-19T14:27:47.723-07:002012-06-19T14:27:47.723-07:00Sue you helped me tremendously. Don't. Let oth...Sue you helped me tremendously. Don't. Let other peoples judgement shift your gift that you have given all of us. You and your husband make the decisions that are right for you, everybody has a different journey. Some end with having a baby, adoption or neither. I'm sure you used a lot of what you know and have taught in your decision. I know I used your info and I used ivf too to finally get pregnant. I'm a nurse so medical ways are ok with me but I embrace all natural ways to help and go hand in hand with trying to get pregnant. Not everybody chooses that and that's their decion. Stay strong and blog. You have a true gift!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.post-35334227706333722742012-06-18T09:19:47.253-07:002012-06-18T09:19:47.253-07:00Thank you "philippa_moore" for sharing y...Thank you "philippa_moore" for sharing your experience with me. It is comforting to know there are others who are creating a positive impact by sharing from their heart. Yes it leaves us more vulnerable to those who are not meant to hear our message and/or those who are not ready to hear our words. All we can do is follow our heart and speak our TRUTH and as we do we show others that vulnerability is a strength. We become the lighthouse guiding others to stand in their power and speak their TRUTH no matter what others think or believe. We choose to focus many we are touching versus the few that are unhappy. It doesn't matter where you look, what matters most is what you see. Keep sharing, continue to inspire and raise hope and awareness to all your readers. The world needs us both now more than ever! Namaste~Sue Dumaishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08253991208009556493noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.post-89435716913559686132012-06-18T09:13:45.613-07:002012-06-18T09:13:45.613-07:00Thank you for your words of encouragement anonymou...Thank you for your words of encouragement anonymous! There are valuable lessons in every challenge and one client's comments will not stop me from sharing. Now that I have become aware of my block there is no stopping me especially when I know in my heart I am helping so many by sharing my journey. Thank you!Sue Dumaishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08253991208009556493noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.post-85975606670629351612012-06-18T08:18:12.349-07:002012-06-18T08:18:12.349-07:00Sue, thank you for this post. A friend shared it ...Sue, thank you for this post. A friend shared it with me in light of something I went through on my own blog recently. I am not on a fertility journey but I suppose I write about similarly emotive things - health, fitness, weight loss, personal discovery. Like you I have shared the ups and downs of that personal journey on my blog for nearly seven years and I have worn my heart on my sleeve and allowed readers in to my life in the hope that it will help them. But sadly, like you, I have had backlashes every now and then and the most recent one was quite horrible. I got some very nasty comments (anonymous of course but this person claimed to have known me in the past) filled with vitriolic spite and unfair judgements on me, my character and decisions I have made over the course of my journey. Not only did they attack me but they attacked my family as well; some of the things they said were so horrible they aren't worth repeating. <br /><br />Like you, I processed it and tried to put it out of my head but it left me utterly terrified of writing anything even remotely personal on my blog for fear of more nastiness and judgement. My post frequency went way down and when I did write I only wrote about things I could detach myself from - running, yoga, healthy recipes, that kind of thing! Anything about what I was truly feeling and thinking stayed firmly locked away. This is tragic, I know, not only because the blog is MY space to do what I like in but because negative comments on my blog are actually quite rare. For the most part the feedback is overwhelmingly positive. I have had emails from people all over the world telling me what a beacon my blog is and how much me sharing my journey has helped them. It sounds like it's the same for you. But I know how hard it is to keep the focus on the good stuff when you get attacked in such an unfair way by someone who quite clearly has a lot of issues of their own and feels ok about taking it out on you. <br /><br />I just want to let you know that I do sympathise and I'm glad you've decided to put the judgemental comments in that email behind you and keep writing and sharing. You are quite right - we can only write the truth of our own hearts, which some will appreciate and others won't. We can't let the few that don't get it get in the way - it isn't our problem, we're here to write for those that DO get it. The only remedy for fear is action!!<br /><br />I am inspired by your example. Thanks again for sharing this :)philippa_moorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17917806436918507229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.post-31478078723235553922012-06-17T21:39:41.115-07:002012-06-17T21:39:41.115-07:00Sue, you help me so much on my journey. Please con...Sue, you help me so much on my journey. Please continue the radio show. Don't let one disgruntled viewer get you down.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.post-1922209023908669162012-05-04T12:20:29.738-07:002012-05-04T12:20:29.738-07:00You are welcome Chrissy! I am so glad you found th...You are welcome Chrissy! I am so glad you found the episode helpful for you and your husband. I hope more episodes will continue to have a positive impact on your journey. Hugs, SueSue Dumaishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08253991208009556493noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.post-67992409187349586932012-05-04T11:48:33.666-07:002012-05-04T11:48:33.666-07:00My husband and I listened to this show episode tog...My husband and I listened to this show episode together and both were really touched. It made a positive impact on both of us on our fertility journey. Thank you.Chrissynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.post-19078491720854265672012-04-16T05:27:40.916-07:002012-04-16T05:27:40.916-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.samhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00572882694113894035noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.post-3488592455207892842012-01-27T09:39:46.082-08:002012-01-27T09:39:46.082-08:00Thanks Crystal! I appreciate you and all you do ~ ...Thanks Crystal! I appreciate you and all you do ~ you are a bright light shining on every woman you touch ~ big hugSue Dumaishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08253991208009556493noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.post-82883692262741519812012-01-27T09:35:08.476-08:002012-01-27T09:35:08.476-08:00Sounds great Sue! I'll share it :-)Sounds great Sue! I'll share it :-)Crystal - Prenatal Coachhttp://prenatalcoach.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.post-715597001172636142011-07-15T12:48:05.483-07:002011-07-15T12:48:05.483-07:00thank you so much! I appreciate your support and e...thank you so much! I appreciate your support and encouragement! xoSue Dumaishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08253991208009556493noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.post-29445515970502647962011-07-15T12:27:08.919-07:002011-07-15T12:27:08.919-07:00All the best in this new beginning, Sue! I celebra...All the best in this new beginning, Sue! I celebrate you for listening to and honoring your heart. It will guide you well. All my love and support from Argentina! =) XXXOOO SuAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.post-69372442706115920902011-06-27T09:53:57.586-07:002011-06-27T09:53:57.586-07:00Thank you for your reply Susana! I receive your hu...Thank you for your reply Susana! I receive your hugs as well. I appreciate you and your courage to share your journey with me. Hugs, SueSue Dumaishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08253991208009556493noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.post-80473383721430227872011-06-27T07:11:50.284-07:002011-06-27T07:11:50.284-07:00You're an Angel on earth, Sue! Thank you so mu...You're an Angel on earth, Sue! Thank you so much for taking the time to write to me. You didn't have to, though: it's already so healing and helpful to have a 'safe space' to express my emotions without feeling judged or pitied; well-intentionally pressed to 'cheer up' or 'stop thinking about it', or guilty for feeling blue once in a while. I feel your hugs and love. That's all I needed =) Sending more your way, XXXOOO SuAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.post-42351801023863336572011-06-25T09:04:43.762-07:002011-06-25T09:04:43.762-07:00Hi Susana, Practice acceptance. "I am feeling...Hi Susana, Practice acceptance. "I am feeling sad and it's ok. Even though I don't like feeling sad, it's ok". When you allow yourself to be with the emotion whether you need to cry and express it in some way, or perhaps you just need to look at it, it often softens it. When you allow the emotion to be present without having to change it, you create space for it and will more likely move through it instead of burying it. I still have days where I feel sad. It is normal. You are normal. You are human. Give yourself permission to BE human. I am here if you need support. Big hugs and lots of fertile love~ SueSue Dumaishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08253991208009556493noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.post-6210806521839889902011-06-25T04:12:06.115-07:002011-06-25T04:12:06.115-07:00I'm so sad today, Sue!I'm so sad today, Sue!Susananoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.post-87502199674224329872011-05-25T21:06:46.488-07:002011-05-25T21:06:46.488-07:00Fitness can be a good start to prepare yourself in...Fitness can be a good start to prepare yourself in getting pregnant.When you decide to conceive you have to minimize your fitness activity. in case you have fertility concerns, I found this site that may be helpful.http://www.natural-fertility-prescription.com/Natural fertilityhttp://www.natural-fertility-prescription.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.post-68303983170261486662010-11-25T18:09:18.369-08:002010-11-25T18:09:18.369-08:00With Yoga, you can take yourself away from all tha...With Yoga, you can take yourself away from all that stress. When you're in an emotional roller coaster, you have to learn how to let go of those "energies" called emotions for you to be at peace.<br /><br />Just like Yoga, <a href="http://www.thetahealinginstituteofknowledge.com" rel="nofollow">Thetahealing</a> can help you be at peace. I've been attending sessions since my friends have pulled me into it, and I didn't regret it. It's working for me well. Actually, I'm taking both Yoga and <a href="http://www.thetahealinginstituteofknowledge.com/thetahealing-masters.html" rel="nofollow">Theta healing</a> classes during the weekends to unwind.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10978254554234881882noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.post-38891733548064920102010-11-16T19:17:01.097-08:002010-11-16T19:17:01.097-08:00It's fascinating to think that you were wonder...It's fascinating to think that you were wondering of other women in need of a support system and understanding "out there" in January 2009, one of my lowest moments. I wonder if your energy drew me towards you, Sue, to you healing voice, to your wise posts, to your insightful radio episodes. <br />Almost 2 years later, here I am, thankful that you exist and share your time and energy so generously; thankful that technology can bridge such long distances and that I have access to it; thankful I'm in a better place than I was in 2009, partly because I no longer feel alone =)<br />Thank you for helping me start to redefine my fertility and my journey.<br />Love<br />SusanaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.post-68282464568818518222010-11-16T19:02:59.671-08:002010-11-16T19:02:59.671-08:00Thank you, Sue! This is so generous of you! I foun...Thank you, Sue! This is so generous of you! I found it empowering yet soothing, pwerful yet peaceful.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.post-48267460883855385962010-11-05T23:56:32.333-07:002010-11-05T23:56:32.333-07:00Thanks for the info!!Thanks for the info!!Trying and tryinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07470797253359818802noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6474659560466465117.post-43937479034406246392010-10-21T07:02:23.086-07:002010-10-21T07:02:23.086-07:00I am glad you are finding the shows helpful. It is...I am glad you are finding the shows helpful. It is truly in the integration and practicing of the tools that you find peace. Keep practicing, you can do this. I have complete faith in you! Hugs, SueSue Dumaishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08253991208009556493noreply@blogger.com