Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Everything is Perfect, Including You!

I wanted to share this inspirational video on perfection. I understand that when you are going through your fertility journey it is common to focus on what isn't working, what's wrong and who's to blame. This creates confusion, questioning and doubt. Many couples begin to blame their body, question their relationship and some even believe they are being punished.

What if there was nothing wrong? What if all that was happening at this time had a deeper meaning that you don't yet have in your awareness? What is everything was perfect?What if there was nothing wrong with you and that you were PERFECT just the way you are?

I have learned from Paul Martinelli and Les Brown that "we are born perfect but programmed for failure". I lead a Fertility Support Group last night and there was discussion around stats and others opinions about your fertility. No one knows what you need! No one else truly knows why you are experiencing this life challenge. Only you can discover that for your SELF.

Drop the labels like "unexplained infertility". It is not your Truth! It is a label that western medicine uses to describe someone that has been through all the testing they have available to them and everything has come back as normal. It is only "unexplained" in their eyes and you need to realize that their perspective is only one small piece of your fertility puzzle.

Finding meaning on your fertility journey will help you transform your experience of it. We often can look back at an experience and recognize why something happened. In hindsight, we can appreciate the lesson, learning or gifts that occurred as a direct result. What is one thing you learned about your Self or your relationship through your fertility experience that you wouldn't have otherwise discovered?

You are perfect in every way! You are a beautiful, vibrant, fertile being! Breathe it in and receive this message with your whole heart!



You Are Perfect Motivational Inspirational Video from Paul Martinelli on Vimeo.

2 comments:

Paul Martinelli said...

Sue, thank you very much for sharing this video "You Are Perfect!" I am gearing up to have my team produce one of these a week. Your blog is the "perfect" setting for this video. Please keep inspiring us all!

Paul Martinelli
http://www.PaulMartinelliBlog.com

Sue Dumais said...

Thanks Paul! The video has a wonderful message for everyone! I am looking forward to the training weekend with you and Les Brown in LA this coming weekend! Hugs, Sue